My boyfriend actually told the guy that he pleasure himself if the guy begging for forgiveness in a way that he is being spoiled by the guy, which is a bit odd in every sense. He convinces himself he is straight because he CAN have sex with his wife and he has an emotional bond with her. If you're a guy who is interested in other guys, a tiny "look" is enough. I used to ignore the warning signs. However, if your boyfriend is from a non-English-speaking culture, especially South Asia, East Asian, or the Middle East, it's actually not that unusual in certain countries for men to embrace, kiss, or even walk down the street holding hands. I laughed even harder this time. If the sex is always one sided and he is simply robotic and his one focus is to get off while having no concern for your needs chances are he's gay.
I am a gay man and I had suspicious that my boyfriend might be gay too.
Are they just his friends? The problem is if I was your husband I wouldn't want to tell you either. For example, the first time I saw him with his shirt off, I thought, He got that body in prison. You've had multiple husbands.
If a guy can be attracted to more than gender he is bi not gay.