You are not some helpless victim of urges beyond your control, you're a human being, with free will and a mind of your own. IT is simply un natural that can make you lonely and sick. Show 25 25 50 All. Pray to God, ask Jesus to come into to your life and change you. As Beckstead noted, "Our best efforts may not be in trying to change possibly immutable aspects of sexuality but in trying to reduce the misunderstanding, discrimination, and hostility that exist within non-heterosexuals and their social situations. It's a hard thing to do but telling some people is a great start. Find out more about cookies and your privacy in our policy.
I don't mean to sound like I am trivializing what you are going through.
‘I am gay – but I wasn’t born this way’
We are who we are, and our sexualities are part of human nature. Nobody is born gay the only choices made for us is our sex n the family we are born into even that can be changed. True, various eye-grabbing headlines over the years have claimed that some scientists have found something like The Gay Gene. How do I explain that I was honestly in love with a woman? But scientific techniques will eventually catch up.
And yet the available research does not support this view. Yes your path to parenthood will be harder than most, but if you set your mind to it you will achieve it. Try the ReachOut NextStep tool to get personalised support options for exploring your sexuality. You are not under mind control. Maybe you could consider a support group. The biology of sexuality diversity tells the world to deal with it.